one of your problems is you don't have common sense, so try to stop thinking and acting on those thoughts

you're there to shop, you're not there to ponder about her relationships with other people of which you don't have the slightest clue

whenever you have an urge to do something significant, stop yourself and consider whether a normal person would do the same thing, don't think about it in terms of your own desires or whether you think the mall jerkops would be interested

and wear something normal girls your age wear so you blend in
because being a drone is better than being you (I don't really mean this)