Ok my "friend" keeps on wanting to hang out together. I put friend in quotations because it seems like he only wants to be friends when I'm single. I've hooked up with him a few times in the past but I'm really not interested in having relations right now.
He pretty much texts me every other day now with "What's up?" or something. I've been saying I'm busy for the past three weeks and sometimes I just ignore his texts or phone calls completely. School is almost over, so the lame "I have homework" excuse isn't going to cut it anymore.
I don't want to be a dick to him and say no, I don't want to hang out because we are kinda friends, but at the same time I don't want to hang out because he probably just assumes we're going to have sex. And really, to me it's kinda insulting that he only wants to be friends when I'm single. I really rather stay home and watch tv than hang out with him.
What should I do? Should I just keep ignoring him until he gets the hint or should I confront him or what?
I don't want to hang out with someone whom I'm friendly with, but he's pretty persistent in wanting to make plans together. I'd like to stay in good terms with him (ie I don't want a lot of drama). How can I gracefully get him to stop texting me things like "Are you free this weekend?" or "When do you want to hang out?"?
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